Getting a refund

One of our neighbors needed a new computer so Bill and I decided to order one for her as a gift  and have it delivered to our house. In reality, it was a practical decision since it would fall to Bill to set everything up and then explain how to use it, so getting it sent directly to our home was going to be the easier option. The leading seller of electronics and appliances in France has a store in Carcassonne but the specific computer that we wanted for our neighbor was only available from their online catalog. Two days after placing that order, we were anticipating the delivery and as expected the mailman arrived at our front door but something was clearly wrong since he waved  to us with the box in his hand as if it weighed nothing.

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If you’re French & in the US, don’t do this

Conventional wisdom says that the more you listen to a language the more you will pick up. After all, from the moment we’re born, we’re immersed in the speech of those around us, and we instinctively begin to copy the sounds to eventually express ourselves verbally. Following that logic, Bill and I get our daily dose of French TV, radio, music, news, weather, and neighborhood conversations. In addition, there are countless online videos, some for grammar, history, or culture but others just for entertainment. It’s especially fun when a French person talks about vacationing in or moving to America since we get to compare their reaction to ours of being the foreigner in a foreign land. Such was the case when I saw a video on the YouTube channel JeanUSA.

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All trains lead to Rome (part 1)

We’ve crisscrossed Europe by rail for decades, discovering countless destinations. For us, train travel is all about the convenience: a quick walk to the station, a relaxing ride (often with a picnic lunch!), and arrival just steps from our hotel. Amsterdam, Berlin, Brussels, Lisbon, Madrid—with more to be discovered. We’ve even explored Italian treasures like Milan, Turin, Bari, and Venice; yet, one iconic place remained unseen: the Eternal City. All roads (or in our case, rails) lead to Rome, but somehow, we’d never taken that particular route. We decided to change all of that by embarking on a special train journey from Paris (we joined it in Lyon) to that fabled destination for our 40th anniversary.

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Rude? You talkin’ to me?

There’s an old joke about European stereotypes regarding the ideal situation vs. what might be a nightmare. The story goes that Heaven is where the police are British, the cooks are French, the mechanics are German, the lovers are Italian, and it’s all organized by the Swiss. On the other hand, Hell is where the police are German, the cooks are British, the mechanics are French, the lovers are Swiss, and it’s all organized by the Italians. Given that we live in France, I’ll take the safe way out and say, “No comment”, but I did want to address something that we often see repeated about this country: rudeness.

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A refreshing break

In honor of today being the first day of summer, is the story of our wintertime visit earlier this year to Luchon in the Pyrenees mountains. It will be one year ago tomorrow when the train line into this ski and thermal baths resort town reopened after a 10-year absence.  We’re always on the lookout for a new part of the country to discover—by train—so this was a great chance to add another destination to our list. Since we seldom see snow where we live, a visit in the winter was going to be ideal.

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The cost to live in France

Last week we talked about the concerns of Americans living overseas who were considering moving back to the States. That blog post was based on an article called “When Returning to the U.S. Seems Unaffordable” where that headline essentially states their worries. From health insurance premiums to retirement, all of the people interviewed shared their doubts about being able to afford the same quality of life back “home” that they had enjoyed in other countries. Soon after I had read that news item I saw another addressing how much money you needed to live in France. Obviously that comes with a definite “that depends” but still it prompted me to do some investigation of what others were spending to have a comfortable life here.

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Going back would cost too much

Our move to France from the US a decade ago was never politically motivated; it was more about practicality. We’d been vacationing here for 30 years, although it was really a rehearsal of living here: renting apartments/houses, shopping in local markets, using public transportation, practicing French conversations. Round-trip flights, one year it was even four times, was money (and time) that could be spent on our own place in this country. We hadn’t really thought much about the other dollar amounts covering housing, food, health insurance, gasoline, etc. that clearly impact daily living. A newspaper article about Americans living overseas and contemplating going back addressed that very issue.

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